7habits of highly
effective teens
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that is
impossible to create an atmosphere of win-win in every relationship. This habit
encourages the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can
arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-win is a
belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t
step on you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people
and you want them to succeed. But you also care about abundant. It is the
belief that there’s plenty of success to go around. There’s more than enough
food for everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet. Win-win always creates more.
Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking win-win is the good feelings it
brings on. The truth test of whether or not you are thinking win-win or one of
the alternatives is how you feel. Win-lose and lose-win thinking will cloud
your adjustment and fill you will negative feelings.
Win-win will fill your heart with happy and serene
thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even fill you with light.
Choose the right!!!
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